Day 8- Chocolate. Chocolate is synonymous with Valentine’s Day. It is also an aphrodisiac. So, whether you eat it off a fruit or enjoy tasting it off of each other; bring some chocolate into the bedroom tonight.
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Day 7- Take a long walk together. It sounds cheesy, but your greatest sexual organ is your mind. So, enjoy a meeting of the minds. Flirt like you just met. This will strengthen your bond, ultimately improving your sexual connection.
Day 6- Plan an activity that neither of you know how to do. Learning a new skill, sport, or activity will strengthen your bond through shared exploration.
Day 5- Spend the morning in bed. Dedicate the morning to pleasing your mate.
Day 4- Cook dinner together. Let your lover be your sexy sous chef.
Day 3- Schedule a spa day. Book a couple’s massage so the two of you can relax. Keep stress and aggravation out of your relationship. Cherish time spent with your mate.
14 Days of Valentine’s Romance
Day 1- Take a trip together. Even if you can’t take a real trip, you can transform your apartment into paradise. No phones, no interruptions, just quality time with your man. Get some frozen drinks going, some seafood, and get your sexy back.
You’ve Lost that Loving Feeling
Remember when you first met your mate, every kiss and touch would make your whole body scream? Now it takes a little more time to get things on and popping. You can blame those pesky hormones for that. “Early in a relationship, you are producing a lot of chemicals and hormones that make [sex] very exciting with this new person. But after you’ve been with them for a while those chemicals start to decrease, and you don’t get turned on as easily,” Dr. Hutcherson says. Trick those hormones by spicing things up with a new toy, or some sexy lingerie.
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