Position Tuesdays- Baby Got Back

Erotic Instructions:

Your best boy kneels, sitting back on his heels. With your back to him, you lower yourself onto his penis in a plié or squat, with your feet planted on either side of his legs. Placing your hands on your thighs for balance (he can place his hands on your rear for serious support), take him in only about a third of the way. Tease him for a few minutes, then gradually go deeper until you’re nesting in his lap, the backs of your thighs and tush curving into him.


Why You’ll Love It:

This is one hell of a chick-in-charge pose, and there’s nothing like having him beg for just an inch or two more. That whimpering you’ll hear is his delight as he gets a full rear view of you and feels the pleasure of long, superorgasmic strokes once you start to pump up and down.

courtesy of cosmopolitan.com

Poetry Mondays- Ecstasy


Lips soft

Nipples hard

Neck grabbed

As you forcefully kiss my mouth

Our tongues dance in unison

My center moistens in anticipation

Your lips travel south


And lower

Until you reach my hot spot

My goodness

My honey pot

You nibble





As my body squirms

And churns


One finger, then two

I feel you

Stimulating my g-spot

As you tickle that soft spot

I’m climbing the wall

I’m so close

Close to that sweet release

That I haven’t had in weeks

My breath quickens as you rapidly fuck my


I’m on the edge

I just beg you to enter

Please take me to ecstasy

Poetry Mondays- Masquerade


I saw you

In the mask

The sexiest brown eyes

They captivated me

I was entranced

Wanting and waiting

For you to speak

As I observed you from the other side of the club

I imagined your lips on my lips

As I stared in your eyes that told a story

A story of love lost

Love found

And a burning desire

I felt your touch



I waited for you to enter me slowly

At first

Then with a quicker pace

And rough

I’m climbing the wall


I hear you say “Excuse me miss. I couldn’t help notice you from across the room.”


It was all a dream. A dream I couldn’t wait to reenact in real life.

Position Tuesdays- The Soft Rock

Try this tantalizing twist on the typical missionary position (him on top, you  on bottom). Instead of having your man rest on his elbows, ask him to slide two  to four inches forward. Have him place his arms on either side of your  shoulders, letting his body fall flat against yours. Make sure you both keep  your spines straight. With your legs touching his, push your pelvis up about two  inches. Your man should push down gently, providing a little counter-resistance.  Instead of the usual in-and-out of thrusting, rock up and down.

Okay, so missionary doesn’t always make you quake. But because he’s in a more  forward position, the base of his penis should naturally rub your clitoris. The  rocking motion draws out the orgasm, building pleasure gradually. Because both  sets of genitals are sharing such tight quarters, your climb to the climax will  be intensified.
Read more: The Soft Rock Sex Position – Cosmopolitan

Poetry Mondays- Dessert


by, Kit O’Connell

I stroke the curve
of sleeping thigh
the wet
sounds from
skin on skin

I had
but a taste
before my need
to thrust
overcame my tongue;

I want to
turn you over
and feast

but having tasted
I shall leave the rest
for the other
soon to arrive

I will let him suck on
the pleasures of
your parted lips

and instead
savor thoughts
of banquets to come.

courtesy of http://www.oystersandchocolate.com/Poetry/1535/Dessert.aspx

Ask the Sexpert

Q.  I have no sex drive. Is there something I can do?

A. Since you didn’t offer a possible reason, I will address a few common reasons for decrease in sex drive.  There are several things that could be the cause of our sex drive’s disappearance. Stress is a huge culprit. There is also sexual dissatisfaction. Last, I’ll address self-esteem.

Stress can zap your body of moisture needed to make sex pleasurable. It also causes people to observe a decrease in desire for sex. If you are overworked or just overwhelmed, it can be impossible to relax and enjoy sex. But, don’t give in to that. You MUST make time even in the busiest times. If you don’t, your decreased sex drive could result in emotional disconnect, which will strain a relationship.

If you are not experiencing pleasure during sex, it would stand to reason that your desire to have sex would be low. Why bother? My mate doesn’t do it right. This is a cause for communication. Find out why your sizzle has fizzled. Barring any cheating, find out why everyday has turned into once a month or your sex schedule.  Show your partner how to stimulate you.

Are you unhappy with weight gain or self-conscious about your naked body?  Your mate has seen your body before, so don’t worry about how you look.  You are supposed to be enjoying sex during sex, not worrying about jiggles and wiggles.  If you still feel uncomfortable, get back in the gym.  Exercise boosts your libido.


Note:  This was answered assuming the person who posed the question was a female.

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Position Tuesdays- Reach for the Heavens

Choose an immovable surface — a strong headboard or the side of a tub if you have a spacious bathroom. Lie on your back and raise your arms overhead so your palms rest flat on your surface of choice with your head several inches from the tub or the headboard; it’s as if you’re reaching for the sexual stars. Once he enters you missionary style, bring your legs together as close as possible. With your thighs pressed tightly, his penis will rub against your inner thighs and labia each time he thrusts.

By holding yourself against that hard surface rather than moving with him, you create even more friction. Combined with your closed thighs, the immobility of this position makes for deeper penetration — a big plus for you. For him, the illusion of resistance will heighten his arousal

Read more: Reach for the Heavens Sex Position – Cosmopolitan

Position Tuesdays- The Hot Seat

Have your partner kneel behind you, but tell him to lean slightly backward. With  your back to him, you kneel in front of him, your legs between his. Your bodies  should be squeezed together tightly. Wrap his arms around your waist and put  your hands wherever you want (his forearms, hips, etc). Once he’s inside you,  move up and down or swivel your hips in a circular motion in tandem, stopping to  take breaks when you get too worked up or tired.

Since he’s tilting back, he has G-spot access. And this position allows for  intense pressure since you’re meshing your butt super snugly with his groin.
Read more: The Hot Seat Sex Position – Cosmopolitan