Q.  What are some “openers” to get me ready for anal sex?

A.  By openers, I’m assuming you mean; what can you do to prepare for anal sex?  There are several things that I would suggest:

1.  Begin with a lot of foreplay.  You might even want to engage in oral or vaginal sex before attempting to have anal sex.  It is easier to attempt anal once you have had an orgasm or are at least fully aroused.

2.  Try penetration with a toy or finger first.

3.  Relax!  Relax! Relax!  The more you tense up the harder and potentially painful it will be.

3.  Use plenty of lubricant, as there is no natural in the back door.

4.  Enjoy!

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